Christmas is only a few days away. If you are like most Americans, you are about to be given presents. Possibly a lot of presents. Chances are that not every one of these presents is going to be exactly to your liking. Maybe it is the wrong color or a style you would never wear. Perhaps you already got that same book or have seen that movie. This is exactly Not the time to say so.
Getting presents is a privilege. It says that people care about you; that they want to get you something. Someone took the time and trouble to go shopping or looking online for something for you. Even if they miss the mark, always accept graciously and with a thank you. If you do not open it in front of the giver, send a Thank you card. (If you are the giver, you may want to consider including a gift receipt so the person has the option of returning it.)
Always thank someone for the thought. Never tell them the gift is wrong or not your style. Never complain to them about the gift. Never hand it back and ask them to return it. It comes down to treating people with respect. They tried and that alone is worth a thank you and a smile; maybe even a hug. Throwing a gift back in someone's face is bad manners and worse, it is hurtful.
Remember that this is the season of giving. If someone does give you a gift, try to remember the reason for the season and smile.
Merry Christmas!
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